I am losing hope.
I feel disfigured
Hashtag: good vibes only.
I am losing hope.
I feel disfigured
Hashtag: good vibes only.
If I was a voodoo priestess
(Maybe I am, maybe I am)
I’d keep your tongue in a jar
Your eyes on a shelf
Your heart buried in the yard
Behind my house.
If you got a tattoo
What would it be?
My eyes? My nose?
A beautiful rose?
I think it must be
A star, or better
A whole constellation
Yes that’s what it will be
A constellation on fire!
Than a supernova
Than me or you,
So would you?
She grew up here, in this garden.
Rooted in the soil, watered by the rain and heated by the sun. Not nourished by the sun, exactly, as she had never been brave enough to expose herself to its light. Not refreshed by the rain, exactly, since she never let it touch her face. But this was fine. This was life.
She was a tightly closed bud with delicate yellow petals, and even shut into herself like this, she was a wonder to behold. Every day people walked by the garden on their way to – she didn’t know where – and sometimes they’d stop and look at all the flowers and plants. Their eyes were always drawn to her, because she was tall and graceful and otherworldly. Still, they could not truly see her, as she remained tightly shut, afraid to let in the light.
One day, a man stopped on the sidewalk to peruse the flowers, as people often did. He noticed her like all the rest before him, for she was tall and graceful and otherworldly. But he didn’t just look at her and walk away. Curious and inspired, he knelt gracefully beside the garden, leaned his face over her, and began to whisper in a voice so low that only she could hear.
He told her she was lovely – a treasure, if truth be told. He told her she was a gift too precious to stay so tightly shut. He told her she was unique, and he had never known another like her. He told her it was safe to look upon the sunlight – that even though it might seem scary to expose her true self, the risk would be worth it.
When he was satisfied with all he had said, the man stood up, brushed the dirt off his hands, and walked away.
She – the tightly closed bud with delicate yellow petals – stood tall and motionless, but the man and his remarks touched her deeply. His words echoed in the raindrops that fell heavy and loud over the garden that night.
The next morning, she decided to face her fears, and she began to stretch out her long, lovely petals. For the first time she felt a bit of the sun’s warmth inside her and she knew she could never be shut again.
Over the course of the day the beautiful yellow flower opened herself completely to the bright sun above. She allowed herself to be vulnerable. She allowed herself to be brave. In doing so, she revealed her nearly indescribable beauty to the world around her, and she made it a better place. People now stopped to photograph the garden and several of them gasped at the ethereal, glittering light that seemed to radiate out from the tips of her petals. She was happier than she had ever been.
She had bloomed.
A few more days went by and the once tightly closed bud, who was now a fully realized golden garden goddess, began to notice some changes in herself. Her leaves were drooping a bit, her petals sagging and falling off. She knew what was happening, but she hadn’t expected it to happen so quickly. Just as she was pondering her newly wilting countenance, she felt the cool of a shadow over her. It was the kind stranger who had awakened her days earlier, come to whisper to her once more.
Ever so gently he leaned down and again spoke in a voice that only she could perceive.
He told her she was lovely, but more than that, she was brave. He told her that her courage had transformed the world. He pointed out that ladybugs, bees, and butterflies had been attracted to her radiant aura, her honey-like scent. He told her about the crowds of people who had come to see her. He told her he had painted a most incredible portrait of her and he thanked her for her gift.
When he was satisfied with all he had said, the man stood up, brushed off his hands, and walked away again.
By nightfall, the beautiful flower had wilted completely to the ground. She lay there, cool in the dirt, and pondered her long life shut away from the sun – and her short but glorious time under its rays. It was worth it, she knew.
She had been closed off for so long, until a magnanimous stranger simultaneously enlivened and doomed her. His near-silent, secret whispers had provoked her to the edge of her greatest fears. He had introduced her to the sun. Oh! – the hot, beaming, delicious sunlight – and how it playfully danced and glided over her magnificent petals. That was her favorite part.
She prepared herself for the slow and peaceful fading back down into the earth that had born her, and she considered the irony that in destroying herself she had finally learned what it was to live.
Her life had not been the garden, or the breeze, or the people walking by or even in how long she stood there, afraid and tightly shut. No, all of that was simply existing. For the tightly closed bud with the beautiful yellow petals, the meaning of life – and the measure of it, too – was in the blossoming.
Sending little notes
Emotional bread crumbs
Into the ether
Straining eyes and ears
For the slightest response
As if a ghost –
A vapor –
Might take the bait
And, hearing my words,
Whisper them back.
It is not a testament to your choices,
This life I choose to lead.
It is a testament to my strength.
When you’re sitting down there on the floor, all cried out and delirious, eyes red and swollen, flicking the lamp switch back and forth, mascara smudged all over your face and you just can’t see that it doesn’t matter if he has her or she has him…
You can’t see because right now you’re just deep in it, you’re thinking about boiling bunnies and you are still turning the goddamn lights on and off while blasting Madame Butterfly through the speakers and wearing his cologne because he shattered your heart…
You were Alex for him, a damn good Alex too, until he decided Alex wasn’t what he wanted and all the things that made you exciting and intriguing now make you a human land mine and he’s afraid of taking another step…
I want you to know that it doesn’t matter if he lied or broke your heart or used you or made you feel cheap, that he spat out beautiful bullshit with a Cheshire grin, it won’t matter after this momentary break or in any other instant after…
It won’t matter because you’re not Alex. Alex was never who you really are, only a part you played once, someone who fit his mold and expectations, who made him feel important, a woman who thrilled and intimidated him, a woman he callously dismissed and discarded…
It won’t matter because the truth is evident now, you can see it and taste it and feel it, that fire burning in your gut, that voice that tells you you’re stronger without him and you were made to handle tough things, the one that dares you to prove it to yourself…
It won’t matter because – plot twist – you’re Glenn Fucking Close and when this moment is over you’re going to stand up, put your pants on, take a long drag off a longer cigarette and go eat some over-seasoned salmon on the balcony of a hotel where the sheets cost more than most people’s dignity and you will never shed a tear over him again…
And that, my dear, is perspective.
it’s tough to write about things i don’t know about,
and i do it with some amount of humility
careful not to overstep or offend
which usually results in rubbish
it’s tougher to write about personal things,
but much more real, raw, accurate
which usually results in spectacular prose
not everything here is autobiographical
(except my disdain for uppercase, that’s all me)
writing a book right now – a novel – a fiction
it’s hilarious how much of it is drawn from real life
and how much of it is drawn from this other life,
one i’ve imagined a million times but never visited
and how authentic they both feel to me.
it’s not that one is real and one is imaginary
both are real, to me. both are me. both are.
i want to present a story that is gripping, heart-wrenching,
imaginative, amusing, compelling, magic.
to do that i have to tell my readers things i’ve never told anyone
admit to things, examine them, lay them bare
i’m mostly ok with that, except
judgement, of myself and of my work – that is myself
i think all writers feel this way, or at least
the good ones do.
The queen sat, soot faced, in a heap upon the grass
She wept over all that could have been
She wept over the past
But as the morning sun broke through
And the smoke began to clear
The queen realized the burned down castle
Was the freedom she once feared.
And so the queen set off that day,
A new song in her heart
Excitedly contemplating what was to come
Grateful for this brand new start.
My name is Healing.
I came here to allow your vulnerability, to show you truth, and to wrap you up in the warm blanket of trust.
My name is Forgiveness.
I came here to help you embrace your humanity, and to learn grace and non-judgement of self.
My name is Compassion.
I came here to give purpose to your pain, and to show you that we are all connected. We are one.
My name is Love.
I came here to speak wholeness into your fragmented spirit. To infuse your soul with divine light. To help you see that your worthiness is inherent, and peace is your birthright.
May we come in?